So many questions

To be happy in life, one do not need too much, this is always the words of my grandma before and it always lingers in my mind. But sometimes there are a lot of questions that need to be answered to have a balance life and that we can find our own way in this life. I need answers and ponders to these questions about me like when and for I will be ready to face big challenges, how much time in the day I need for myself alone, in which situation I feel really most comfortable, how do I see the disribution of duties and responsibilities privately and am I pleased with it, who are interested with my environment and my problems, and lastly to whom or to what I cling for most at life, partner, career.